A detailed investigation of fetishism,
beginning with an overview on theories about where fetishism
begins and why, and moving on to individual chapters on
popular fetishes. "Erotic Extremities" describes the pleasures
of foot- and leg worship, and "Dressing for Pleasure" offers
a potpourri of fashion fetishes, from rubber and latex to
leather and lace.
Chapters described below.
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Chapter 18 ~ Chapter
19 ~ Chapter 20
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18. Fetishism
"The sacred and profane are nowhere more intimately
intertwined than in the realm of fetishism, whose linguistic
identity itself originates in the religious and whose practices
often involve elaborate, sometimes ecstatic rituals."
Contents:
Quick cuts from our interviews:
Dian Hanson...
...is the editor of Leg Show magazine. She is 40 years
old and was twice married and divorced. She is now in a long-term
monogamous relationship.
"I'm appalled by what our Puritan culture does to
people. Our culture first creates all these fetishes by suppressing
positive images of sexuality in youth, and then, when the person
develops the fetish, which is the natural end result of that,
the person is further punished and reviled."
Ava Taurel...
...owns and operates a New York-based company that specializes
in D&S psychodrama. She has lectured on S/M at New York
University's Human Sexuality program and Rutgerr's Medical School
and at other schools nationwide. She is 47 years old.
"When I wear particular garments, it arouses me. Even
if I'm just alone in a room wearing those garments, it arouses
me to feel these things on my body and to touch them. It gets
me in a certain mood, [even] prior to seeing someone who can
enjoy it with me."
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19. Erotic Extremities
"What typically is called foot fetishism actually
comprises a nearly infinite variety of tastes. Foot fetishists
may like feet, legs, or buttocks. They may favor toes, soles,
arches, insteps, heels, ankles, calves, knees, or thighs. They
may like huge feet or tiny ones; shapely, well-formed feet or
rough, peculiar ones; shod feet or bare ones."
Contents:
Quick cuts from our interviews:
Doug Gaines...
...is 37 years old and is the founder of Foot Fraternity. He
teaches special education and owns a greeting-card company for
gays and lesbians, as well as a bookkeeping service. He has
been with his lover for 12 1/2 years.
"The Foot Fraternity was established as an affirmation
group. I found the need to affirm [others] because I [once]
needed somebody to tell me, 'You want to smell my feet? That's
okay, it doesn't hurt anybody, it's innocent.'"
Mark J...
...is 30 years old. He works in sales and is in a full-time
relationship.
"Any type of foreplay with the female foot gives me
[an] erotic sensation."
Rob...
...is 30 years old and unmarried.
"I don't have a lot of interest in [D&S;] issues. I
am interested in normal women but find myself attracted to women
amputees with greater vigor. I also have a strong interest in
women's legs and feet."
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20. Dressing For Pleasure
"D&Sers; are frequently passionate about presenting
the body in flamboyant and exotically erotic ways. Their dress
transforms them into their personal ideals of wondrous and
romantic--or, conversely, sinister and powerful--creatures."
Contents:
Quick cuts from our interviews:
Marie-Constance...
...owns Constance Enterprises, a mail-order company with a
retail store specializing in fetish fashions, and she founded
the annual Dressing for Pleasure fashion show and gala ball.
She is in her 50s and lives in New Jersey with her business
partner and life-partner, John. She has three grown children.
"Frequently it's the man who has the fetish. He
tells his wife, 'I like rubber, and I want to wear rubber
when we have sex.' And she says, 'Uck! You must be nuts!'....
Understanding takes time...."
Lindsay...
... is 38 years old. A visual artist, she has worked in word
processing and as a legal secretary, a masseuse, a housepainter,
a bartender, and a professional photographer. She lives with
her life-partner, Max (profiled in Chapter 7).
"I think [dressing] really spices things up, because
I become different people. That's exciting for my partner:
instead of just having this one woman, there are other people
that he perceives."
Allen...
...is 46 years old and has been married for over 20 years.
He works in advertising.
"I consider myself trisexual: if it's sexual, I'll
try it.... My biggest turn-on in wearing fetish gear is the
direct physical feeling of having it on my body."
Phil T...
...is 34 years old and is married with children. He has a
background in communications.
"Just recently I [wore] a diaper with rubber pants
with a garter belt and stockings. It was quite a combination!
Of course, nobody could see that underneath [my] clothing....
What would happen...if I got caught at work?"
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