25. Golden Showers
"Urine has always been a substance of some mystery--and
cultural schizophrenia: it is at once naughty and nice, sacred
and profane."
Contents:
Quick cuts from our interviews:
Victoria B...
...is 35 years old. She works in publishing, with a second career
in acting and performance art. She is in a longterm relationship.
"Though I was actively exploring lots of different
areas of S/M [with men], the intimacy of water sports was not
something I was prepared to [share] with a male partner. It
wasn't until I came out with women that it felt accessible to
me.... I definitely play with other people, but I've only really
done water sports in love relationships."
Tony...
...is 38 years old. He is an attorney who is married and has
children.
"My true sexual desire is to please a woman in any
way, shape, or form. I think of myself as a valuable person
because I will do that to please her. I can't say that it necessarily
makes logical sense in an asexual analysis--but it's not asexual."
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