WANT TO SUBMIT?
Don't get excited: all we mean is that to get your
site listed, YOU MUST READ THIS FAQ.
Q: DOES MY SITE QUALIFY FOR LISTING HERE?
First and foremost, you site must be BY adults FOR
adults, and must depict consensual sex between adults.
Next, the site must contain
some free SM/fetish content. This includes (but isn't limited
to) topics such as bondage, spanking, crossdressing, roleplay, fetishes,
watersports, D&S;, power exchange, erotic combat, leather, corsets,
body modification, and anything else that's kinky.
The content may be personal diaries, events listings,
club information, erotica, graphics, photos, BDSM advice, chat rooms,
personal ad areas, links lists or other material that enlightens or
entertains. Commercial sites are accepted as long as they offer some
good free content. On-line catalogues with sexy photos of fashions,
equipment, videos, and other merchandise are welcome. Similarly, pro
dommes are welcome here but must offer more than a blatant text advertisement
for their charms. At least give us some salacious pictures or stories
While I don't disqualify submissions based on site
design, I do dislike sites which rely on multiple popups (ads or otherwise).
I don't have any problem with you trying to make an extra buck via
ads, but some sites just use them excessively, and I don't want to
send my users into that mess.
Many people are now signing up with age verification
services both to help block out kids and to make a little money to
cover their web development costs. I have no problem with that. However,
if I can't get past your firewall, you're automatically disqualified.
Sorry, but I can't take your word for it that your contents are great
if you won't take the risk of putting free previews on your site or
at least give me a temporary password.
Finally, to reiterate, if you depict acts which
involve minors, animals, or anyone else who cannot give informed consent
to sex, or if you yourself are underage, you are automatically disqualified.
Teen sites, please do NOT bother to contact me: you'll scare away
our Adult Babies.
Q: CAN WE EXCHANGE BANNERS?
Sorry, no. We only run text
links. Put another way: too many kinky people, not enough bandwidth.
If you wish, however, to fly a banner for your link
back to us, well, thank you very much! I offer an assortment of Different
Loving Link Banners which are yours for the grabbing.
New icons and banners will be coming when the
catalogue moves to its new home.
Q: WHAT IF I PAY YOU TO RUN MY BANNER?
Thanks, but no. I hate being forced to view banners
on other sites and won't put them here. If you would like to support
this site, please buy
some toys from my husband, Will or check out my newest book, Come
Q: I RUN DIFFERENT PROJECTS ON MY SITE. WILL
YOU LIST THEM ALL?
Sorry, no. One site=one link
is the rule. There are simply too many people who have created highly
diversified sites. If I linked to individual pages, the catalogue
would swell to several times its size. Just make sure visitors can
find everything you offer by providing prominent, easy-to-understand
links on your main page.
TO EVERY RULE, ITS EXCEPTION: I will, on rare (and
sometimes whimsical) occasions, put up more than one link to a site,
but only if I am convinced that people might not otherwise find some
superlative, free SM/leather/fetish Community resource you are offering.
If your pages are amply cross-linked so people can easily navigate
from one of your projects to another, please decide on one URL for
your site and submit that one.
Q: DO YOU REQUIRE A RECIPROCAL LINK?
A: No. This isn't a links exchange; it's a hand-selected
listing, and the only thing I care about is that your site offers
something of value to the SM/fetish scenes. Of course, I appreciate
a link back, but it is NOT a requirement for getting your site listed
here. Also, don't bother trying to bribe me with a link back. Link
here because you too believe it offers something of value to the community.
Q: COOL. SO WHAT DO I DO TO GET LISTED?
A: Send Eagle the Link
Princess, an email with your URL and the name of your site. PLEASE
include a BRIEF description of your content AND tell her which links
category best suits your site. (If you can't remember the categories,
look at them now). DO NOT INCLUDE ATTACHMENTS/PICTURES!
If your site would go under the Merchants section
then please also include WHICH subsection of the merchant section
you would like to be included in.
Eagle will view your site and information. If it
meets the above criteria, it will get added to the appropriate category.
She'll even try to drop you a note after she has checked it out.
HOWEVER: please don't expect an immediate reply.
NOTE: The links get updated as soon as possible, but sometimes delays
do happen. If you can't be patient, please don't apply. If you can
be patient: THANK YOU.