Is it normal to be obsessed with breasts? I mean
my girl has small ones, my old girl had big ones and I constantly think/fantasise
about them. I love tits and love sucking on them. I could suck forever,
the older and softer the better, like it if they are sagged down pass
the belly button and all stretched out. WHY are women so determined to
lift them up? I find it to be an incredible turn-on when they are long
and soft. My problem is I cant find any. frustrated, wish i could just
First, it is never normal to be obsessed: if
you are suffering from a true obsession (which makes it difficult for
you to function at work, damages your personal relationships, and interferes
with your ability to concentrate), you should seek professional remedy
by speaking to a doctor or therapist.
However, my take on your situation is that this is not a true obsession
but more of a sexual fascination or fetish. So I will respond on that
Being fascinated by breasts is a common American phenomenon. Our national
obsession is evident in the thousands of magazines, books, and videos
devoted to the subject. Breasts are so important to our ideal of American
beauty that women often judge themselves by the size and shape of their
breasts. Women who are small-chested want implants; women who are big-breasted
want reductions; women who sag want to be lifted; and so on. It's hard
to blame women for wanting to achieve their ideal of beauty--though, as
a sexologist, I think it's a shame that more people can't just accept
their bodies' differences and love all sizes and shapes of breasts as
perfectly normal, natural, beautiful aspects of femininity.
Now, tell me: if you discovered you preferred pistachio ice cream, while
all your friends preferred vanilla, would you feel it says something awful
about you as a person? Of course not. The same applies to sexual desires.
Just as breasts come in all varieties, so do fantasies.
If your biggest turn on is a woman with long, soft breasts, then search
out women who have them. It's that simple. If you love older women's breasts,
perhaps you could love the older woman attached to them too, and form
a happy, sexually satisfying relationship with her.
There is no sin in knowing what you like and
going after it. Bless you and good luck.
Dr. Gloria Brame
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