QUESTION:
I have found web sites my husband has been visiting (several) that are pictures of amputated women and stories about amputated people. What does this mean?

ANSWER:
A fetish for amputees is not as rare as you might think. There are numerous sites about this fetish on the Internet, as well as regional support groups which draw together amputees and the people who find them sexy (their fans are called "devotees").
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QUESTION:
i was a foot fetishist and masochist. When i got 18 my fantasies began to disturb me and i tried to repress my sexual feelings. i did this for months and as a result i lost my erotic desire. Now im 23 so i have lack of sexual desire problem for 5 years. I think while i was trying to repress my sexual feelings i caused a problem called loss of erotic associations. Can you give me any info about this problem...i cant find much about it on net or books.. a book name including that will be also highly appreciated.

ANSWER:
Your question raises some questions. My first question is whether you simply can no longer have sexual fantasies--or if the problem is that you are forcing yourself not to fantasize about fetishes and masochism, and that all other types of fantasies leave you cold?
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QUESTION:
Dr Brame ~ I'm not sure if this is the type of question you can answer, but I followed the links from your website. I've recently been tuning into my submissive tendencies, and in doing so, I've discovered that someone I've become very close to online is a Dom. He has instructed me to find information and articles on how to have a fulfilling long distance D/s relationship and I'm finding it very difficult. So far, all I can find are message boards and chat transcripts and it's not all that helpful. We have no intention of meeting any time soon due to our respective responsibilies, so my quesion is this: How can we construct a fulfilling LDR via phone and internet? Any advice or direction you can give me would be greatly appreciated.

ANSWER:
I'll do my best to give you an answer but, obviously, it will have to be general.

First I don't know of any reliable sources of information on Long Distance (cyber) Relationships (LDR's). However I suspect that there are others in your situation you have posted comments about their personal experiences on their web pages. A bit of digging around, or posting a query on Usenet, may yield some URLs for you to check out.
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QUESTION:
What type of husband would enjoy pornography from a magnitude of young teens to seeing women have sex with animals. I have seen his collection of photos with women being raped, and S&M. You name it, he has it. And he prefers to have this, than to have sex with me. This has been going on for over 5 years. Please educate me. I want to know whats wrong with me. Thank you.

ANSWER:
Many men enjoy pornography across a fairly wild range of interests. For the most part, an enjoyment of pornography, particularly in men, is considered normal. Studies have shown that men are much more likely than women to be aroused by visuals, which is why the average customer for porn is male. Married men are no exception. Even if they remain completely faithful in the flesh, reading or watching porn gives them a little extra stimulation and boosts their sex-drive.
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QUESTION:
Is it normal to be obsessed with breasts? I mean my girl has small ones, my old girl had big ones and I constantly think/fantasise about them. I love tits and love sucking on them. I could suck forever, the older and softer the better, like it if they are sagged down pass the belly button and all stretched out. WHY are women so determined to lift them up? I find it to be an incredible turn-on when they are long and soft. My problem is I cant find any. frustrated, wish i could just rent some!

ANSWER:
First, it is never normal to be obsessed: if you are suffering from a true obsession (which makes it difficult for you to function at work, damages your personal relationships, and interferes with your ability to concentrate), you should seek professional remedy by speaking to a doctor or therapist.   
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QUESTION:
ever since i was young i have had a fascination about rubber balloons and have been using them for masturbating since i was i teen and now married i find it hard to stop buying them and masturbating with them usually sitting on them or sticking my penis into them till i cum why do i enjoy them so much?

ANSWER:
Thanks for your question about this interesting fetish. An erotic interest in toy balloons is unusual but not unknown. Balloon fetishists are interested in a range of erotic play, from rubbing the balloons against their bodies and genitals, to watching women innocently frolic with balloons, to making love while surrounded by balloons. For some, it's all about the sensuality of the balloons; for others, the most exciting moment is when the balloons pop.
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QUESTION:
ANAL sex or masturbation with dildo's, vegetables and anything not nailed down. What is the best way to stretch the rectum? Can dildo-ing the ass have any health risks? Everyday I like to do it to myself and dont desire my lovely gal for sex. Am I nuts or just bored???? My thrill is to get bigger and bigger objects into my butt and I like to drive around with them, or maybe sneak one in my butt prior to going out to dinner with my girlfriend and then get up to go to the bathrooom and stroke my butthole in a booth and then try to conceal the 1.75"x 9" dildo in my pants. then to perhaps go to a abandoned field or place in broad day light to go to town on myself. I guess you ge the idea when I'm home alone you can be sure I'm cleaning out my rectum to start a long period of anal pounding, CANT get enough, wish I could have some one do it to me and AM I at risk of any Intestonal problems ? I can get 2" dia. objects x 9" long all the way into my butt and aprox. 7" circumfrance. Welp you know what I'm going to do now, right? Thanks!

ANSWER:
Because of the many nerve-endings in this area men and women alike can get very turned on by "anal play" and anal sex across a range of variations. There are three key ingredients necessary for healthy anal sex:
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QUESTION:
ok i have had sex with my boyfriend about 15 times.. we have used a condom 2 times and the rest he pulls out... if evertime he pulls out and i see the cum come out when i am off is there a really good change i will get pregnant.. it has also been about 1 or 2 weeks after my last period?? what do i do i am i in trouble? if so besides a " at home test" how can i tell if i am pregnet before my mom and dad do? i cant stop it fells so good and fells so right

ANSWER:
Withdrawal (when he removes his penis before ejaculation) is a completely ineffective method of birth control. Not only is there a risk of your partner accidentally ejaculating inside you, or around your vaginal region, but pre-ejaculate (clear fluid that drips from the penis) may contain sperm. So, unfortunately, if you were using withdrawal, and your period is late, you must get a pregnancy test as soon as possible.   
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