Question:
Is double penetration dangerous. My boyfriend and have dabbled with three-in-bed sex with a friend of ours. but we haven't gone that far yet, because I'm scared it could damage me.

Answer:
If they go at it like football hooligans rushing a barricade, probably not. However, if they take their time, and are slow and gentle lovers who are sensitive to your needs (and your screams), you'll be fine. Or to quote the the author Robert Heinlein, "With patience and a great deal of saliva, the elephant deflowered the mosquito."

Double penetration is slightly more likely to tear tissue than single penetration but not by much. In fact, simultaneous rear and frontal penetration is so popular and common that adult toys manufacturers offer any number of double-headed appliances to enliven singles' lonely evenings.

The three steps to enjoying double penetration are, first, adequate lubrication. Your natural body fluids may not be enough for this enterprise, so keep a good lube at hand, and particularly at arse. Second, as noted, your mates should take their time entering you and, at least until you are writhing and begging for more, should make love to you very gently at first. Third and equally important, make sure you are ready for this or you won't be able to relax. Relaxation is KEY as you will need to relax your muscles (front and back) to accommodate the double-load. Following these three steps will put you on the stairway to double-donged heaven.

By the way, if they are doing this for your pleasure as much as theirs, that's lovely. But if they're a pair of queenie boys who just want to bump up against each other inside you, my advice is that you politely withdraw your organs from the arrangement and tell the two of them to have their party without you.

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