Question:
My boyfriend wants me to shove a things down the end of his penis during foreplay but I'm scared of hurting him. Can you advise me.

Answer:
It would help if I knew exactly what this thing is. If he wants you to stuff a grapefuit down his urethera, I would be disconcerted.

However, I will assume that he is referring to a very slender, sterile probe, and that your boyfriend has already privately experimented with urethral play. At least I hope he has, because if he has never before felt something pushed into that little peeping eye, you will both be in for a bit of excitement.

I don't recommend this really but since you will probably go ahead and do it anyway, have him show you exactly how he does it and how far he inserts it. Do not press it inside the body (beyond the shaft of the penis), or you risk poking an organ and causing internal injury. A pierced bladder can be fatal.

Should you faint or throw up in the course of his showing you how he does it, take it as a sign that you're not quite up to his level of sexual gourmandise. Cease and desist. But if you find it interesting, some final tips: Don't thrust. Don't ram. And, whatever you do, please don't lose it in there.

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