Question:
My partner enjoys receiving oral anal stimulation and penetration with the tongue. This is also my favourite method of foreplay. Once and for all, please tell me if it is safe or not to continue?

Answer:
Once and for all? You mean my pronouncement on analingus will be an historic occasion?

Such pressure!

Well, unlike actually ingesting feces, analingus can be safely explored. The single most important issue here is HYGIENE. Bottom-line: a clean bum is a happy bum.

Make sure your partner showers and thoroughly cleanses the area. If you are inclined to foreplay, you can hop in too and sex up the washing by gently soaping your partner. Use a gentle glyceride or moisturizing soap to avoid drying out rectal tissues. Don't just wash outside. If your tongue plans to go there, make sure soapy fingers arrive first.

If your partner enjoys anal eroticism, there are any number of erotic flourishes you can add to make the experience more sensual. You can make the shower a ritual of your love-making. After washing, you can gently dry and kiss the area. You can teasingly inspect it for cleanliness, stimulating it lightly with your fingertips. And if you're kinky, you can give the term "white glove test" a whole new meaning!

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